.is me it you're looking for?. the more things change, the more things stay the same. kind reader, my heart hurts. i pray for healing, i pray for the strength and courage to allow the cure to happen. what if the remedy required me to give up what i have and move half way around the world? would i be able to do it? courage. you can't just pray for the answer, you have to have the courage to accept the answer.